19 Dec 2015, 3:18 am
#829
(18 Dec 2015, 11:53 pm)BusLoverMum I could say something, but it would get me my first warning! Sounds like your half brother genuinely wanted to reach out (I'm guessing he's quite young) but is having his strings yanked.
PM me what you felt like saying
He is 15 by the way...
He is being played by his older sister, she has already had him take me off his facebook while all this is going on, and fair enough I accept that, he knew who I was, thought we were related somehow, it took him a while to grasp we are brothers as I have a different surname to him...
I see where his sister is coming from, it must be a shock to find out about my sisters death on Facebook, of all places, she wants to protect him...
I am mostly annoyed as I am the one being warned, they should be warned about me, it has all come about after I put the word out asking if there dad wanted to go on Wednesday, to keep a low profile...
The kid is old enough to make his own decisions, but I am going to abide his sisters request and have nothing to do with him for now, I have too much going on to be causing trouble.
I would not have been bothered if he had not have messaged me, I had not spoke to him for a while anyway.
Anyway, I think he was genuinely reaching out now he realises my true identity...I will leave it up him, if he wants to see me, I will make it happen, I am on good terms with his other sister who I have been friendly with over the years, and she has already told me she would help to get us together, I dont want to be best mates with him or anything, but he is family, we are strangers really, but I have very strong family values...
It is a fight I am not fighting at the moment as I can't be arsed
