Ask Dr Nick!
There is a thread in here somewhere. Uncle AdamY solved the initial love triangle there too.
Laying my cards on the table - I have 'lived' a bit. Older women, younger women, same age women, bitter women, scorned women, two faced women, secure women, insecure women, in different countries women.
One thing I learned, no matter what you do, what you say - you can't win.
Whatever you do, it will be wrong in someone's eyes.
Just go with your gut instinct and don't let your head rule your heart or vice versa.
One positive, is that you are young and have plenty of time, whatever the outcome here.
Don't let it chew you up. What will be, will be.
As my Dad always reminded me: "don't go plodging without your wellies".
Three kids later - I may start listening to his advice.
