02 Nov 2014, 8:08 pm
#707
(02 Nov 2014, 7:53 pm)Adam Today really isn't my day like but never mind.
I mentioned in my previous post the three American lasses me and my mates befriended during freshers. Anyway, I got with one of the Americans during freshers and was dumped by her a couple of weeks ago. I now seem to be in a very awkward situation because the events of last night have resulted in me falling for her flatmate/best friend. What makes it even more awkward is that I agreed to remain very good friends with my ex, so I don't want to hurt her, but both my ex and her flatmate/best friend I've fallen for are both going back to Arkansas next month...
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Follow your heart.
You say you were dumped by your ex which implies that the decision to end the relationship was hers.
I appreciate that you may have agreed to remain friends, but, as a friend, she should have no objection to you going out with someone you really like.
If she has a problem with you going out with a friend of hers - the problem lies with her not you.
I know you want to keep everyone happy but life isn't that simple. If you think that her friend is something special, and her feelings are reciprocated, then go for it!
Long distance relationships however...
