(02 Nov 2014, 11:39 am)Adam HungoverDid you visit the wonderful Sam Jacks?Got in at 4ish and was up again at 8.
Was a great night out though with my American friends. Spent the early part of the night in the Weatherspoons at the very top of John Dobson Street, then went touring the clubs having a whole assortment of shots.
(02 Nov 2014, 11:39 am)Adam HungoverDid you visit the wonderful Sam Jacks?
Was a great night out though with my American friends. Spent the early part of the night in the Weatherspoons at the very top of John Dobson Street, then went touring the clubs having a whole assortment of shots.
(02 Nov 2014, 11:45 am)Simmy Did you visit the wonderful Sam Jacks?
I don't think our female American friends would appreciate us lads stood there gauping at some eye-candy haha.(02 Nov 2014, 11:45 am)Simmy Did you visit the wonderful Sam Jacks?
I don't think our female American friends would appreciate us lads stood there gauping at some eye-candy haha.
One of Richards mates messages me to leave Richard alone when it was him too bad she is now blocked on FB I have no time for trouble makers
(02 Nov 2014, 7:22 pm)Racer_Experience One of Richards mates messages me to leave Richard alone when it was him too bad she is now blocked on FB I have no time for trouble makers
(02 Nov 2014, 7:22 pm)Racer_Experience One of Richards mates messages me to leave Richard alone when it was him too bad she is now blocked on FB I have no time for trouble makers
Today really isn't my day like but never mind.
I mentioned in my previous post the three American lasses me and my mates befriended during freshers. Anyway, I got with one of the Americans during freshers and was dumped by her a couple of weeks ago. I now seem to be in a very awkward situation because the events of last night have resulted in me falling for her flatmate/best friend. What makes it even more awkward is that I agreed to remain very good friends with my ex, so I don't want to hurt her, but both my ex and her flatmate/best friend I've fallen for are both going back to Arkansas next month...
#MoralDilemmas
#complicatedlovelife
#relationshipadvice
#hashtagsonNEB
(02 Nov 2014, 7:53 pm)Adam Today really isn't my day like but never mind.
I mentioned in my previous post the three American lasses me and my mates befriended during freshers. Anyway, I got with one of the Americans during freshers and was dumped by her a couple of weeks ago. I now seem to be in a very awkward situation because the events of last night have resulted in me falling for her flatmate/best friend. What makes it even more awkward is that I agreed to remain very good friends with my ex, so I don't want to hurt her, but both my ex and her flatmate/best friend I've fallen for are both going back to Arkansas next month...
#MoralDilemmas
#complicatedlovelife
#relationshipadvice
#hashtagsonNEB
(02 Nov 2014, 7:53 pm)Adam Today really isn't my day like but never mind.
I mentioned in my previous post the three American lasses me and my mates befriended during freshers. Anyway, I got with one of the Americans during freshers and was dumped by her a couple of weeks ago. I now seem to be in a very awkward situation because the events of last night have resulted in me falling for her flatmate/best friend. What makes it even more awkward is that I agreed to remain very good friends with my ex, so I don't want to hurt her, but both my ex and her flatmate/best friend I've fallen for are both going back to Arkansas next month...
#MoralDilemmas
#complicatedlovelife
#relationshipadvice
#hashtagsonNEB
(02 Nov 2014, 8:08 pm)AdamY Follow your heart.
You say you were dumped by your ex which implies that the decision to end the relationship was hers.
I appreciate that you may have agreed to remain friends, but, as a friend, she should have no objection to you going out with someone you really like.
If she has a problem with you going out with a friend of hers - the problem lies with her not you.
I know you want to keep everyone happy but life isn't that simple. If you think that her friend is something special, and her feelings are reciprocated, then go for it!
Long distance relationships however...
(02 Nov 2014, 8:08 pm)AdamY Follow your heart.
You say you were dumped by your ex which implies that the decision to end the relationship was hers.
I appreciate that you may have agreed to remain friends, but, as a friend, she should have no objection to you going out with someone you really like.
If she has a problem with you going out with a friend of hers - the problem lies with her not you.
I know you want to keep everyone happy but life isn't that simple. If you think that her friend is something special, and her feelings are reciprocated, then go for it!
Long distance relationships however...
Ask Dr Nick!
There is a thread in here somewhere. Uncle AdamY solved the initial love triangle there too.
Laying my cards on the table - I have 'lived' a bit. Older women, younger women, same age women, bitter women, scorned women, two faced women, secure women, insecure women, in different countries women.
One thing I learned, no matter what you do, what you say - you can't win.
Whatever you do, it will be wrong in someone's eyes.
Just go with your gut instinct and don't let your head rule your heart or vice versa.
One positive, is that you are young and have plenty of time, whatever the outcome here.
Don't let it chew you up. What will be, will be.
As my Dad always reminded me: "don't go plodging without your wellies".
Three kids later - I may start listening to his advice.
(02 Nov 2014, 8:08 pm)AdamY Follow your heart.
You say you were dumped by your ex which implies that the decision to end the relationship was hers.
I appreciate that you may have agreed to remain friends, but, as a friend, she should have no objection to you going out with someone you really like.
If she has a problem with you going out with a friend of hers - the problem lies with her not you.
I know you want to keep everyone happy but life isn't that simple. If you think that her friend is something special, and her feelings are reciprocated, then go for it!
Long distance relationships however...
(02 Nov 2014, 8:11 pm)Marcus I agree with what you are saying AdamY, but I've never been in the situation myself (probably never will).
Adam, do what you want, and don't let people change your decision.
(02 Nov 2014, 8:21 pm)Andreos1 Ask Dr Nick!
There is a thread in here somewhere. Uncle AdamY solved the initial love triangle there too.
Laying my cards on the table - I have 'lived' a bit. Older women, younger women, same age women, bitter women, scorned women, two faced women, secure women, insecure women, in different countries women.
One thing I learned, no matter what you do, what you say - you can't win.
Whatever you do, it will be wrong in someone's eyes.
Just go with your gut instinct and don't let your head rule your heart or vice versa.
One positive, is that you are young and have plenty of time, whatever the outcome here.
Don't let it chew you up. What will be, will be.
As my Dad always reminded me: "don't go plodging without your wellies".
Three kids later - I may start listening to his advice.
(02 Nov 2014, 8:08 pm)AdamY Follow your heart.
You say you were dumped by your ex which implies that the decision to end the relationship was hers.
I appreciate that you may have agreed to remain friends, but, as a friend, she should have no objection to you going out with someone you really like.
If she has a problem with you going out with a friend of hers - the problem lies with her not you.
I know you want to keep everyone happy but life isn't that simple. If you think that her friend is something special, and her feelings are reciprocated, then go for it!
Long distance relationships however...
(02 Nov 2014, 8:11 pm)Marcus I agree with what you are saying AdamY, but I've never been in the situation myself (probably never will).
Adam, do what you want, and don't let people change your decision.
(02 Nov 2014, 8:21 pm)Andreos1 Ask Dr Nick!
There is a thread in here somewhere. Uncle AdamY solved the initial love triangle there too.
Laying my cards on the table - I have 'lived' a bit. Older women, younger women, same age women, bitter women, scorned women, two faced women, secure women, insecure women, in different countries women.
One thing I learned, no matter what you do, what you say - you can't win.
Whatever you do, it will be wrong in someone's eyes.
Just go with your gut instinct and don't let your head rule your heart or vice versa.
One positive, is that you are young and have plenty of time, whatever the outcome here.
Don't let it chew you up. What will be, will be.
As my Dad always reminded me: "don't go plodging without your wellies".
Three kids later - I may start listening to his advice.
(30 Oct 2014, 1:48 pm)Michael The new Terminator plot... i was looking forward to it and now i'm not... sounds terrible!Thanks for that Michael, wont need to watch it now
The PLOT IS BELOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The beginning of Terminator: Genisys, the first of three planned films that Paramount hopes will relaunch the beloved sci-fi franchise, is set in 2029, when the Future War is raging and a group of human rebels has the evil artificial-intelligence system Skynet on the ropes. John Connor (Dawn of the Planet of the Apes’ Jason Clarke) is the leader of the resistance, and Kyle Reese (Divergent‘s Jai Courtney) is his loyal soldier, raised in the ruins of post apocalyptic California. As in the original film, Connor sends Reese back to 1984 to save Connor’s mother, Sarah (Game of Thrones‘ Emilia Clarke), from a Terminator programmed to kill her so that she won’t ever give birth to John. But what Reese finds on the other side is nothing like he expected.
Twist No. 1? Sarah Connor isn’t the innocent she was when Linda Hamilton first sported feathered hair and acid-washed jeans in the role. Nor is she Hamilton’s steely zero body-fat warrior in 1991’s T2. Rather, the mother of humanity’s messiah was orphaned by a Terminator at age 9. Since then, she’s been raised by (brace yourself) Schwarzenegger’s Terminator—an older T-800 she calls “Pops”—who is programmed to guard rather than to kill. As a result, Sarah is a highly trained antisocial recluse who’s great with a sniper rifle but not so skilled at the nuances of human emotion.
(31 Oct 2014, 7:20 pm)aureolin It's probably best you and this Richard give each other a wide berth... Two wrongs don't make a right, and it's silly little 'telling tales' like this, that make the pro-enthusiast position in Nexus bus stations, untenable...
(02 Nov 2014, 7:22 pm)Racer_Experience One of Richards mates messages me to leave Richard alone when it was him too bad she is now blocked on FB I have no time for trouble makers
(02 Nov 2014, 8:48 pm)Adam Sound advice that. Thank you.
My head says one thing, my heart another.
I'm really not sure if the friend feels the same way or not.
It is very hard to keep everyone happy. I don't want to make my friendship with them awkward, and I don't want their friendship to be awkward either.
And it does seem a bit pointless if we've only got a month and a bit left.
Doing A-Level Ethics has made this a hell of a lot harder. I've got all the different theories running through my mind; Utilitarianism, Kantian Ethics, Virtue Ethics.
Also good advice. Thank you. That's one problem with me. I hate being selfish, so I do always consider other people's opinions and how they would feel. It's quite annoying at times.
Also cracking advice. Thank you.
Ah, I should have probably tried to find the Uncle AdamY thread. Completely forgot about it.
In regards to someone seeing either outcome as wrong, that's one of the sub-problems I have. I absolutely hate seeing friends hurt, so if I hurt someone then I'll feel guilty as owt.
I love these deep quotes and mottos people have (blame A-Level philosophy). That's certainly a one to remember.
I'll have to think about it long and hard over the next few days. I might be seeing them tomorrow night for a game of bowling or on Wednesday for bonfire night, or even both, so I best get my skates on.
But seriously lads, thanks a lot. I do appreciate it.
(30 Oct 2014, 1:48 pm)Michael The new Terminator plot... i was looking forward to it and now i'm not... sounds terrible!Thanks for that Michael, wont need to watch it now
The PLOT IS BELOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The beginning of Terminator: Genisys, the first of three planned films that Paramount hopes will relaunch the beloved sci-fi franchise, is set in 2029, when the Future War is raging and a group of human rebels has the evil artificial-intelligence system Skynet on the ropes. John Connor (Dawn of the Planet of the Apes’ Jason Clarke) is the leader of the resistance, and Kyle Reese (Divergent‘s Jai Courtney) is his loyal soldier, raised in the ruins of post apocalyptic California. As in the original film, Connor sends Reese back to 1984 to save Connor’s mother, Sarah (Game of Thrones‘ Emilia Clarke), from a Terminator programmed to kill her so that she won’t ever give birth to John. But what Reese finds on the other side is nothing like he expected.
Twist No. 1? Sarah Connor isn’t the innocent she was when Linda Hamilton first sported feathered hair and acid-washed jeans in the role. Nor is she Hamilton’s steely zero body-fat warrior in 1991’s T2. Rather, the mother of humanity’s messiah was orphaned by a Terminator at age 9. Since then, she’s been raised by (brace yourself) Schwarzenegger’s Terminator—an older T-800 she calls “Pops”—who is programmed to guard rather than to kill. As a result, Sarah is a highly trained antisocial recluse who’s great with a sniper rifle but not so skilled at the nuances of human emotion.
(31 Oct 2014, 7:20 pm)aureolin It's probably best you and this Richard give each other a wide berth... Two wrongs don't make a right, and it's silly little 'telling tales' like this, that make the pro-enthusiast position in Nexus bus stations, untenable...
(02 Nov 2014, 7:22 pm)Racer_Experience One of Richards mates messages me to leave Richard alone when it was him too bad she is now blocked on FB I have no time for trouble makers
(02 Nov 2014, 8:48 pm)Adam Sound advice that. Thank you.
My head says one thing, my heart another.
I'm really not sure if the friend feels the same way or not.
It is very hard to keep everyone happy. I don't want to make my friendship with them awkward, and I don't want their friendship to be awkward either.
And it does seem a bit pointless if we've only got a month and a bit left.
Doing A-Level Ethics has made this a hell of a lot harder. I've got all the different theories running through my mind; Utilitarianism, Kantian Ethics, Virtue Ethics.
Also good advice. Thank you. That's one problem with me. I hate being selfish, so I do always consider other people's opinions and how they would feel. It's quite annoying at times.
Also cracking advice. Thank you.
Ah, I should have probably tried to find the Uncle AdamY thread. Completely forgot about it.
In regards to someone seeing either outcome as wrong, that's one of the sub-problems I have. I absolutely hate seeing friends hurt, so if I hurt someone then I'll feel guilty as owt.
I love these deep quotes and mottos people have (blame A-Level philosophy). That's certainly a one to remember.
I'll have to think about it long and hard over the next few days. I might be seeing them tomorrow night for a game of bowling or on Wednesday for bonfire night, or even both, so I best get my skates on.
But seriously lads, thanks a lot. I do appreciate it.
Shopping for jeans.
I hate it, all stops seem to think we are skinny and very tall or morbidly obese and I don't want to pay £40 for ONE pair.
Also some tosser shoved past me on the escalator.
(03 Nov 2014, 12:17 pm)Jimmi Shopping for jeans.Try ASDA, Tesco or Primark. You can buy two or three (and perhaps four) pairs of jeans for £40. They come in a range of sizes too.
I hate it, all stops seem to think we are skinny and very tall or morbidly obese and I don't want to pay £40 for ONE pair.
Also some tosser shoved past me on the escalator.
(03 Nov 2014, 12:17 pm)Jimmi Shopping for jeans.Try ASDA, Tesco or Primark. You can buy two or three (and perhaps four) pairs of jeans for £40. They come in a range of sizes too.
I hate it, all stops seem to think we are skinny and very tall or morbidly obese and I don't want to pay £40 for ONE pair.
Also some tosser shoved past me on the escalator.
Try ASDA, Tesco or Primark. You can buy two or three (and perhaps four) pairs of jeans for £40. They come in a range of sizes too.Got some in Burton.
Try ASDA, Tesco or Primark. You can buy two or three (and perhaps four) pairs of jeans for £40. They come in a range of sizes too.Got some in Burton.
Can we have a brand new thread started whats annoying Jimmi todaySounds like a good idea.
I'm kidding mate...I like ya really
Can we have a brand new thread started whats annoying Jimmi todaySounds like a good idea.
I'm kidding mate...I like ya really
Part of me is pleased to see it in frontline service. Part of me is gutted to have yet to ride it - the Alexander of Brylaine's I saw the other week in Lincoln bus station, was out again today on the 5.
I was heading in the opposite direction.
Gutted!
