(26 Feb 2015, 10:21 pm)MarcTheA4 He's 'one of them' (the gang I've mentioned previously), that's the problem.
If I say as much as a word in response I'll get a stabbing for it...
(26 Feb 2015, 10:21 pm)MarcTheA4 He's 'one of them' (the gang I've mentioned previously), that's the problem.
If I say as much as a word in response I'll get a stabbing for it...
(26 Feb 2015, 10:21 pm)MarcTheA4 He's 'one of them' (the gang I've mentioned previously), that's the problem.You've got to make your own way, but just remember that people won't respect you unless you earn that respect. Putting someone in their place can do that, but it's your situation to judge.
If I say as much as a word in response I'll get a stabbing for it...
(26 Feb 2015, 10:21 pm)MarcTheA4 He's 'one of them' (the gang I've mentioned previously), that's the problem.You've got to make your own way, but just remember that people won't respect you unless you earn that respect. Putting someone in their place can do that, but it's your situation to judge.
If I say as much as a word in response I'll get a stabbing for it...
(26 Feb 2015, 10:24 pm)Tom Best way is to ignore them, or if your brave enough stand up to them as Adrian said
If you ignore them they'll soon give up as I've learnt.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:24 pm)Tom Best way is to ignore them, or if your brave enough stand up to them as Adrian said
If you ignore them they'll soon give up as I've learnt.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:25 pm)aureolin You've got to make your own way, but just remember that people won't respect you unless you earn that respect. Putting someone in their place can do that, but it's your situation to judge.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:25 pm)aureolin You've got to make your own way, but just remember that people won't respect you unless you earn that respect. Putting someone in their place can do that, but it's your situation to judge.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:26 pm)MarcTheA4 Couldn't stand up to them. Too weak haha. We would need to outnumber them 10-1 to stand a chance, and we'd take mass casualties from getting knifed repeatedly. Dare I say I would be the only survivor!
This kid in particular is like this with everyone though, and everyone just says nothing. I swear to god he's got a major problem. Hurling abuse at everyone he sees...disgrace.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:26 pm)MarcTheA4 Couldn't stand up to them. Too weak haha. We would need to outnumber them 10-1 to stand a chance, and we'd take mass casualties from getting knifed repeatedly. Dare I say I would be the only survivor!
This kid in particular is like this with everyone though, and everyone just says nothing. I swear to god he's got a major problem. Hurling abuse at everyone he sees...disgrace.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:28 pm)MarcTheA4 Well, if he's in the library tomorrow, I'll follow your advice.
He does not possess the intelligence to counter-attack my words. I could barely translate what he was saying this morning! Another problem is, I tend to go solo when I'm out, and he spends most of his life on weekends knocking about the market smoking and other things with a bunch of chavs like him - that'll be my fate sealed.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:28 pm)MarcTheA4 Well, if he's in the library tomorrow, I'll follow your advice.
He does not possess the intelligence to counter-attack my words. I could barely translate what he was saying this morning! Another problem is, I tend to go solo when I'm out, and he spends most of his life on weekends knocking about the market smoking and other things with a bunch of chavs like him - that'll be my fate sealed.
(26 Feb 2015, 10:33 pm)citaro5284 Can you not take the puppy as your guard dog?
I used to have bother with a group of lads at school. All of them thought they were hard within a group. However, when I singled one out and kicked him full pelt in the 'nads - it turned out he wasn't so hard after all.
I did take a beating from him and his mates after this incident. To sort this out, I simply waited until the same lad was on his own again, gave him another beating, and warned him that I would keep on targeting him if he had to get his mates involved. It ended there and everyone got on with their lives.
I'm not suggesting you should take the approach I did, but Adrian's right, you have to find your own way of dealing with bullies and sometimes that does mean standing up to them one way or another.
The best way I got someone to stop tormenting me was to sit in the class just after dinner, I had half a brick tucked away in my bag, when he walked in, I had the brick in hand and said 'Right, C**t, lets settle this right now', he watched me grab the brick and I have never seen anyone move so fast...He would have broke the 100m world record if a timekeeper was on hand...The thing is, had I of caught him, I would have been for either GBH w/intent, attempted murder or Pre-Meditated Murder as I had planned exactly what I was going to do to him, lets just say it would have quite gruesome and messy, I meant business and he never bothered me again, my life could have been so different if I caught up with him.
So Marcus, I dont condone violence, I would not encourage people to resort to it, only as a last resort, but sometimes, going to the extreme can work out in your favour, if you feel you can stand up to this kid 1on1, go for it, just dont think along the lines of how I did and dont have cold blooded murder on your mind
(26 Feb 2015, 7:51 pm)MrFozz I got in trouble with the Pollis today, that is all I am prepared to say, absolutely annoyed at myself, I was not thinking straight and my head was somewhere else...I dont think I have thought rationally since September, and the last few weeks have been a bit if a blurAre we going to see you on the front page of the Sunderland Echo or just in the court round up section?
Still, the opposite can be said of what I am getting myself into, started to go to the drug clinic in Seaham to deal with my addictions, I will get the chance to have counselling and be able to work through my recent dangerous and unpredictable behaviour and what is causing me to overstep the mark at times
(26 Feb 2015, 7:51 pm)MrFozz I got in trouble with the Pollis today, that is all I am prepared to say, absolutely annoyed at myself, I was not thinking straight and my head was somewhere else...I dont think I have thought rationally since September, and the last few weeks have been a bit if a blurAre we going to see you on the front page of the Sunderland Echo or just in the court round up section?
Still, the opposite can be said of what I am getting myself into, started to go to the drug clinic in Seaham to deal with my addictions, I will get the chance to have counselling and be able to work through my recent dangerous and unpredictable behaviour and what is causing me to overstep the mark at times
(27 Feb 2015, 9:35 am)Andreos1 Are we going to see you on the front page of the Sunderland Echo or just in the court round up section?No lol...
(27 Feb 2015, 9:35 am)Andreos1 Are we going to see you on the front page of the Sunderland Echo or just in the court round up section?No lol...
(27 Feb 2015, 10:19 am)Andreos1 Finding photos of me on Flickr from the Conference I was at earlier this week...
Urrrgh
(27 Feb 2015, 10:19 am)Andreos1 Finding photos of me on Flickr from the Conference I was at earlier this week...
Urrrgh
(27 Feb 2015, 10:20 am)Jimmi Care to show us the photos in question.No chance
(27 Feb 2015, 10:35 am)MrFozz If it is a long shot with a few hundred people in, thats the only way we will see it probablyThere isn't unfortunately.
(27 Feb 2015, 11:06 am)MrFozz Ya cant stay hidden forever mate...All it takes is for someone to goto The Washington Post and the BBC will have you named and outed in no time
(27 Feb 2015, 11:06 am)MrFozz Ya cant stay hidden forever mate...All it takes is for someone to goto The Washington Post and the BBC will have you named and outed in no time
(27 Feb 2015, 11:11 am)Andreos1 It will be the Washington and Houghton Star more than likely.
Anyway, wasn't gonna bother - but to keep you out of mischief today, here's one from the other week at the Youth Cup game.
Chelsea are playing Spurs on the telly in the Semi Finals soon, so you can agree/disagree with my predictions.
(27 Feb 2015, 11:11 am)Andreos1 It will be the Washington and Houghton Star more than likely.
Anyway, wasn't gonna bother - but to keep you out of mischief today, here's one from the other week at the Youth Cup game.
Chelsea are playing Spurs on the telly in the Semi Finals soon, so you can agree/disagree with my predictions.
