(23 Dec 2015, 9:33 pm)MrFozz wrote Today was an emotional and happy day, my sister got the dignified send off she deserved...Everybody I hoped would turn up, did turn up, my favourite Uncle travelled from Belfast as did my Auntie...It's late enough at night for me to justify being utterly cheezy, so here's to moving forward, M. leFozz.
I must admit I was quite disrespectful towards one person, my biological dad...I asked that if he came, he would keep a low profile, which is fair enough, giving we never had a good relationship with him, but when I said, it came across like a demand/order rather than a polite request...I was prepared to put my foot down and physically make sure he did not come...But I realise that behaviour is not acceptable...I have been a bigger man and apologised to my half sisters...Whatever my sis thought of him(not much btw) he lost his oldest daughter and understand he could be hurting, so I tried to make up for that mistake
1 half sister seems to have a cross to bear with me regarding my younger half brother, there was sense in her argument that I should not talk to him for a while, all he knows is his dad had other children but has never met us, he is very young for a 15yr old and it is possibly a lot to take in for him...
I have one half sister onside, and once I start to feel better, she is quite keen(so she says) to pursue a relationship with me, I will never patch things up with her dad, she has done nothing to hurt me and if she wants to know me, then I am happy with that, it would wrong for me to deny us the chance of building a relationship...I hold very strong family values, and always think about my half siblings and regard them as family...She pointed out life is too short and what has happened to me lately is proof of that...I really hope I can get my other half sister onside which in turn will get my brother onside...
I sincerely hope it works out for us...
Anyway, thanks for the support...And just thought I would tell you guys
Essay Over
(and I'm trying to work out why, when I reply to your posts, there's always descriptions of emoticons in square brackets that don't display as anything!)