Bolam is quite nice, it's a ~30 minute stroll around the lake. Could probably extend it to an hour or so if you walk all the paths.
It's kinda just a place you'd visit if you're on a drive towards somewhere else.
Wallington is your standard National Trust property, there's a few gardens, the hall to look around, some lengthy scenic walks too.
RE: Go North East X75 - Newcastle to Belsay Hall