If it was someone from the forum, then I genuinely am I disgusted and hope they have the balls to stand up.
I hope whoever it was (forum member or not), realises that whatever you do, is up to you and naff all to do with them.
However, maybe it is a wakeup call to not tell the world anything and everything ie Ingeus, signing on, hospital appointments.
Only giving whoever it is, details of your goings on.
Hopefully your advisor doesn't take it further.
RE: What's annoying you today? V2
'Illegitimis non carborundum'