RE: What's annoying you today? V3
(11 Aug 2015, 7:23 pm)MrFozz wrote I have said it loads, you need better respite workers, nothing will improve if you keep having run-ins, if there threatening you, belittling you then that is wrong, there not doing there job...
I was in and out of care for five years man and boy between 1996 and 2001, as for your respite I probably did the work on the guidelines of how you should be treat...I did work around Every Child Matters, Blueprint and Article 12, I can tell you nobody should treat you like that...If those respite workers worked with the people I was involved with? They would not last 5 minutes
It's scandalous that respite care for children and young people is provided by the same profit driven agencies as care for the elderly. Respite care, in particlar, for people of any age, is hard won, and the people in receipt of it are all, in some way, vulnerable, so when it's provided by immature, abusive t***ts (usually poorly qualified and experienced for minimum wage) it's criminal, really. I know someone with a quadriplegic and autistic child who fought hard to even get
weekly help with bathing them. The carer changed every few weeks and often didn't even turn up.
It actually makes me genuinely terrified for my youngest as he grows up. We've found a good situation to guide big'un through his teens - also incredibly hard won, but totally worth it. He's got a lot of potential and they're the people who can truly help him realise it. The fees make Eton look cheap, but the council didn't have any other suitable option for him.
Youngest will probably never live independently, though. Anyone who has spotted us about will know why. Give it 4 years from now and he'll be bigger than me. He's already stronger and faster.
And if I even suspected that anyone who was supposed to be CARING for either of them was taking the piss or trying to wind them up they might not want to hang around to make up answers to questions....